First off, she is cute as hell, don't tell me a good looking female player is not in high demand, especially if she has game and personality. Didel has it all. She works hard and expects the best from everyone which many of the top players do as well.
Those who take a long break of 6-12 are usually more determined then before they left. With only 4 decent endgame guilds on the original USA servers, 1 on lig and 3 on imp, there really isn't much to choose from as we know how they are. A few bad apples can ruin a whole guild especially if they have power within the guild.
Before the merge, if you would put up with and accept the assholes in guilds, or deal with the fact that some guilds truly did not care about guildies and the impact they all had on the guild, it was pretty much a free for all. No guild, no endgame gear or even higher gear astral runs. Take some notes and be willing to give people tryouts. Whether be in astral runs, or some other kind of PvP trial. Don't be so quick to say, hey what was your gear score and if you think about sleeping or logging out you are not good enough for our guild.
Over time on the USA server, the only guild in the end that was strong and stuck together was the lig guild Warsong. All the other guilds only did DoM together and had their own clicks which ran astral gear and if you were not in that click you most often did not get to go. For any of the new European servers that merged, there are many good players from USA that are just sick of dealing with the egos and BS due to the fact that guilds were very limited. Personally, I will not even stay/join a guild some people are in because their egos are too big for the Allods server. With that said, looking forward to meeting people from European server and hopefully finding a guild myself.
Mage - 20000+ Vel pre merge and guildless by choice 8's/7's plenty of cash to burn if I see fit.