Hello Mondegreen!
I´m sorry that you have experienced this start!
It´s not like this all the time for sure! But sometimes people just don´t want to help anyone sadly. Which Server are you playing on (P2P or F2P) and which side (Empire or League)?
Usually there are many exp guilds which would help you to level up faster and on League side for example on F2P there are many world shouts about it and you should get invited kinda fast if you´re in Novograd.
The "is it worth to play?" question is always hard to answer. There are many people with plenty of cs, high runes which makes it harder for newbies to start. But if you playing for fun with some people you really get along with and if you´re not looking to be top player without cashing it´s fun! There will be some offers for some cs stuff with a certain level which usually are quite good.
I don´t know how the situation is on the P2P Server atm but they used to do endgame things like raids and Dominion too.
I hope that helped for now! If you have any other questions don´t hesitate to ask here in Forum again or on the official Allods Discord too!
Greetings!