I've been playing in AT, Again....

(In our camp and their camp)
I've been pvping and suddenly players are pulling our warlords, have been tanking the crap out of them, making me wonder why they don't get one killed.
Until I decide to check on theirs only to see that their warlords
NEXT TO THE SITE is
Lv40... And I wonder once again why our camp is just ditched.
Makes me mad I can't kill the warlord, while they kill ours and they don't get one shot like we do? Please make this equal....
Plus I have seen a healer just taking ON
two blue ring warlords not 1 but
TWO surviving the hits...... and healing back up every time.
Is there something wrong with our faction? Why developers just make it so uneven in certain areas?
I would love to know if there is something up or am I just missing something
Thank you.